Best Sex Scenes
Sex in movies is often reduced to mood lighting, soft pop music, a bed, partial disrobing and some hazy camera work. (On the other hand, of course, there's porn.) But when a movie gets a sex scene RIGHT, the result isn't just titillating; it can be tender, awkward, kinky or passionate, and frequently all of those things at once. With that in mind, we've done extensive research to come up with the 25 best sex scenes of all time. Hey, it's a tough job, but somebody has to do it.
25. 'A History of Violence' (2005)
Early in the film, when Edie (Maria Bello) dons a cheerleader outfit and engages her husband Tom (Viggo Mortensen) in a 69ing session (the first in a non-porn American film), the act is sweet and tender. The same can't be said for a second, much more violent session on the stairs -- complete with slapping and screaming -- that occurs after Edie has learned Tom was once a mobster and eloquently depicts just how much their relationship has changed.
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24. 'Desperado' (1995)
Few Americans knew Mexican soap star Salma Hayek before Robert Rodriguez cast her as a bookstore owner who helps a mariachi (Antonio Banderas) avenge the death of his wife. But no one could deny Hayek's ample talents (or bosoms) after the sexy, candlelit romp she shares with Banderas. Incidentally, we don't blame Antonio for forgoing blood-soaked vengeance in favor of some between-the-sheets time with salsa-hot Salma.
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23. 'The Big Easy' (1987)
New Orleans detective Remy McSwain (Dennis Quaid) and prudish DA Anne Osborne (Ellen Barkin) are polar opposites, making them, of course, perfect for each other. But it's not their super-charged chemistry that makes this scene so hot; it's the uncertain awkwardness of their coupling that makes this one of the most realistic -- and steamiest -- sex scenes ever filmed. "I never did have much luck with sex anyway," admits Anne. We'll bet she does now.
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22. 'Young Frankenstein' (1974)
Madeline Kahn, as Dr. Frankenstein's frosty fiancée Elizabeth, comes undone upon seeing the monster's (Peter Boyle) "enormous schwanstucker." She melts with his advances, breaking into operatic song at the climactic moment (or final-final moment of the seven or eight that the pair enjoy). Those white streaks in the bride of Frankenstein's hair? According to this comedy, they're caused by the ferocity of Frank's sexytime. It's alive, indeed.
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21. 'Brokeback Mountain' (2005)
While Ang Lee's groundbreaking drama would prove to be the most high-profile gay love story of our time, it was the buzzed-about sex scene between Jake Gyllenhaal and Heath Ledger that really piqued the curiosity of more open-minded moviegoers. Sure, the Wyoming mountains are frigid, but their rugged embrace inside that tent isn't the least bit about body heat. Of course, the unforgettable scene also gives a whole new meaning to the term "Ride 'em, cowboy."
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20. 'Blow-Up' (1966)
The most iconic scene from Michaelangelo Antonioni's film about a hot-shot photographer (David Hemmings) has the actor, in an orgiastic photo shoot, straddling supermodel Veruschka and ravaging her with his ... camera. Frankly, it's even wilder than his threesome with two teen groupies (yes, really). Antonioni's film was so scandalous, it was released without a rating -- but the arthouse flick was nominated for two Oscars anyway. Take that, MPAA.
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19. 'Boys Don't Cry' (1999)
Hilary Swank won a Best Actress Oscar for her portrayal of Brandon Teena, a she living as a he; Chloe Sevigny garnered a Best Supporting Actress nom as Brandon's girlfriend Lana. In one of the best scenes, their lovemaking is both tender and passionate, and Lana's "big O" is not so much big as it is pivotal. She knows at this point that everything is not as it seems with Brandon, but she also knows that no man has ever satisfied her in quite this way.
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18. 'Boogie Nights' (1997)
Wait, this one's too easy, right? It's a film about porn, for crying out loud. But when Dirk Diggler (Mark Wahlberg) and Amber Waves (Julianne Moore) film what is, in fact, this movie's only porn scene, we see not smut (bam chicka bam) but tenderness, from Amber's mother-hen protectiveness to Dirk's eager desire to make it "sexy." Who cares that the camera guy doesn't get his "money shot"? When the scene's over, Dirk's become a big, bright, shining star. That's right!
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17. 'Sex and Lucia' (2001)
Paz Vega is a waitress who recalls the best moments of her ill-fated love affair with a writer, Lorenzo (Tristan Ulloa), in this Spanish flick. She was obsessed with him, and it shows -- she does a strip-tease for him, they fervently make love and she holds his, um, manhood ardently. Oh, this is why Vega is so popular in her homeland.
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Reader Comments (44)
Karen Shoop at 12:54AM on Jun 17th 2008
How can you leave out Desert Hearts? Probably the HOTTEST lesbian sex ever committed to film!
A at 10:06PM on Jun 12th 2008
How did u not put the scene from '40 Days and 40 Nights' when he used the flower to make her orgasm???? I'll never forget that no matter how much else of the movie was cheezy
rony at 3:37PM on Apr 17th 2009
good web saed
spaceghost at 10:29AM on Jun 23rd 2009
you miss the boat, the best scene were in 9 songs. 9 Songs is a 2004 British film, directed by Michael Winterbottom. The film was controversial on its original release due to its sexual content, which included unsimulated footage of the two leads having sexual intercourse and performing oral sex as well as a scene of ejaculation. 9 Songs was the most sexually explicit mainstream film to date, largely because it includes several scenes of real sexual acts between the two lead actors. Margo Stilley's role is highly unusual in that she had unsimulated and very graphic sex with her co-star Kieran O'Brien, including genital fondling, female masturbation, with and without a vibrator, penetrative vaginal sex, cunnilingus and fellatio. During a scene in which Stilley masturbates his penis with her hand after performing fellatio on him, he became one of very few actors who have been shown ejaculating in a mainstream,
vito at 11:59PM on Jun 12th 2008
what's the surprise .crappy actors, writers, directors and money hunger ceo's that don't care about the movie goers. they should and will lose monry.
FilmGuru at 11:50PM on Jun 12th 2008
People why care......none of these choices were good...I am being to nice.
Film makers must stop re-inventing the wheel. Film is not theatre!
If it was great once leave it alone!
Cape Fear should have been on that list.... last great film De Niro did was "The Mission",
or Al Pacino last great was "Dog Day Afternoon", and yes there are talks of re-makes!
Hollywood what was that strike about.... be original!
Stop trying to do shot by shots, or anything else....be creative?
Isn't that why we still have to pay $10.00, make it worth our money!
alex at 2:31PM on May 21st 2009
thanks
FilmGuru at 11:51PM on Jun 12th 2008
People why care......none of these choices were good...I am being to nice.
Film makers must stop re-inventing the wheel. Film is not theatre!
If it was great once leave it alone!
Cape Fear should have been on that list.... last great film De Niro did was "The Mission",
or Al Pacino last great was "Dog Day Afternoon", and yes there are talks of re-makes!
Hollywood what was that strike about.... be original!
Stop trying to do shot by shots, or anything else....be creative?
Isn't that why we still have to pay $10.00, make it worth our money!
david at 12:11AM on Jun 13th 2008
you missed some really good scenes...your top 25 has some real lames picks in it.... one of my all time favorites...SALMA HAYEK..."From Dusk to Dawn" although it was a dance scene, that scene was a sexy as any skin to skin scene ever. What about the break through sex scene...Marlon Brando in "The Last Tango in Paris"....KIevin Kline and Jamie Lee Curtis in "A Fish Called Wanda"...and there are so many more...at least you stayed away from the mainstream foreign films...the Swedes, the French, the Germans and the Spanish have some incredible films with some of the best erotic sex scenes in film...not porn,but erotic. Unfortunately, Americans still have a problem with sex, and even women's breasts. The US is so repressed when it comes to sex and the body...when are we ever going to get over the puritanical supressed way of life. I can't believe how backwards and childlike we actually are..its pathetic.
matt at 10:00PM on Jun 14th 2008
What about the sex scene in the limo between Kevin Costner and Sean Young? Along with what went on in "BODY HEAT," that is THE sexiest scene ever!
Nattismom at 4:37PM on Jun 23rd 2008
What about the clay pot scene in "Ghost"???
foolforvanity at 6:11PM on Jun 23rd 2008
Glad to see Y tu mama tambien was no.1 I mean it had so many great sex scenes.
Suzi at 3:30PM on Jun 24th 2008
I HAVE SEEN A LOT MORE THAT SHOULD HAVE MADE THIS LIST. TRY WATCHING SYLVESTER STALLONE AND SHARON STONE IN THE SHOWER SCENE FROM "THE SPECIALIST". IF YOU DON'T GET TURNED ON BY THAT...YOU'RE DEAD!!! OR, AL PACINO AND ELLEN BARKIN IN THE BEDROOM SCENE OR THE GROCERY STORE SCENE FROM "SEA OF LOVE"...NOW THAT'S HOT!!!
joey bagadonuts at 1:59AM on Jun 25th 2008
We need some honorable mentions to Pierce Brosnan sex scene with Rene Russo in (not bad remake)Thomas Crown affair. On a lighter note the "shaving scene" in "Phenomenom" (sp?) with Travolta and Sedgwick was a great love scene especiall since no one got naked.
goodcoin.weebly.com at 2:05AM on Jun 25th 2008
Italian flick SWEPT AWAY had awesome action
shirley at 10:52AM on Jul 7th 2008
come on, you left out pivotal scenes from Fatal Attraction...Spike Lee's She Hate Me, in my opinion had the sexiest lesbian sex scenes which involved kerri washington and dania ramirez...
Sea of Love was memorable...Denzel and Lisa Nicole Carson in that chair scene in the The Devil Wears a Blue Dress...Susan Sarandon and Kevin Costner in Bull Durham...and my personal fave is the opening shot of Spike Lee's Mo Betta Blues involving Wesley Snipes and Lonette McKee...Which brings me to ...How come you guys couldn't come up with sex scenes involving african american actors?
gargan91 at 3:54PM on Jul 11th 2008
i think the departed had an interesting sex seen, lol, y waznt it on this list.
sara at 8:03PM on Jul 23rd 2008
Body Heat is one of the hottest sex scenes of any movie in my opinion. I also liked the sex scene between Sting and Kathleen Turner in Julia and Julia. Crimes Of Passion was memorable as well.
sara at 8:03PM on Jul 23rd 2008
Just so we are clear, they are talking about great sex scenes in movies, NOT PORN
roshi at 12:13AM on Aug 13th 2008
munich?