"Marriages have been rescued from divorce because of the movie." His role as cool-guy wiseacre Mike Seaver on 'Growing Pains' made Kirk Cameron one of the hottest young stars of the late '80s and early '90s. But since the show went off the air in 1992, Cameron has steered clear of the spotlight, devoting his time to raising his six kids with wife Chelsea Noble, acting as a Christian evangelist and founding Camp Firefly, a charity that sponsors camping trips for terminally ill children.
But all that changed in 2008 when Cameron tackled the role of Caleb Holt in 'Fireproof.' The $500,000 film, about a firefighter on the verge of divorce who takes a 40-day faith-based challenge in a last-ditch attempt to save his marriage, became a gargantuan hit. The movie grossed north of $33 million to become the most profitable independent film of the year; the book featured in the film, 'The Love Dare,' was a top-seller on Amazon.com; and fans heralded the Christian-themed drama as a life-changing, marriage-saving experience.
With his star on the rise once more, Cameron chats about getting back in the acting saddle, what it's like to save marriages and whether the 'Growing Pains' gang will ever join forces for another reunion movie. -- By Tom DiChiara
1. It had been three years since your last acting gig when 'Fireproof' hit theaters. What was it about the movie that enticed you to act again?
Well, I've got a big, full, busy life with my wife and my six kids and all the other stuff that we do. And so this was a movie that really caught my attention. I had seen a movie that these producers [Alex Kendrick and Stephen Kendrick] did before called 'Facing the Giants.' That was a little independent film that did really well, and so I got to know them. They were starting their next movie called 'Fireproof,' and I just loved the script -- just a killer script -- about marriage, about a firefighter on the brink of divorce who can save perfect strangers but can't even rescue his own marriage from going up in flames. So I read the script, auditioned for the role, they gave me the part ... and we did it. [I] did a little firefighter boot camp stuff in Los Angeles and in Georgia. And put on about 15 pounds of good muscle weight so I could look the part and pull of some of the stunts and stuff, so that was kind of a manly man thing to do -- lots of fun.
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: Actor Kirk Cameron attends the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugerman/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Kirk Cameron
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: (L-R) Executive Producer Michael Catt, executive producer Jim McBride, President of Samuel Goldwyn Films Meyer Gottlieb, Provident's Ben Howard, actor Kirk Cameron, Sony's Bob Rubin, Sony's Lexi Wong, and filmmaker Alex Kendrick attend the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugerman/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Kirk Cameron;Alex Kendrick;Ben Howard;Lexi Wong
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: Actor Kirk Cameron attends the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugerman/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Kirk Cameron
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: Actor Kirk Cameron attends the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugerman/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Kirk Cameron
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: Actor Kirk Cameron autographs the movie's poster at the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugerman/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Kirk Cameron
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: Actor Kirk Cameron autographs the movie's poster at the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugerman/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Kirk Cameron
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: Actor Kirk Cameron attends the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugerman/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Kirk Cameron
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: Actor Kirk Cameron attends the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugerman/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Kirk Cameron
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: President of Samuel Goldwyn Films Meyer Gottlieb (L) and actor Kirk Cameron attend the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugermam/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Meyer Gottlieb;Kirk Cameron
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HOLLYWOOD - SEPTEMBER 25: (L-R) Provident's Iyan Bruce, Provident's Michael Now, Sony's Steve Orkin, Sony's Bob Rubin, actor Kirk Cameron, Sony's Bob Rubin, Sony's Lexi Wong, Sony's Marc Rashba and Lisa Jean attend the premiere of Samuel Goldwyn Films' "Fireproof" at the Fire Museum on September 25, 2008 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugermam/Getty Images for Samuel Goldwyn Films) *** Local Caption *** Kirk Cameron;Steve Orkin;Ben Howard;Lexi Wong
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2. What was the best part about filming the movie and what was the toughest?
The toughest part was -- it was a real big acting stretch for me. There were, you know, scenes in there that were really challenging -- some of the fighting scenes, some of the crying scenes. There was just a whole lot of emotion in there. And to just bounce back and forth from one to the other was pretty challenging. But it was great. That's what I love to do. I'm an actor, and so I love to give it my best shot with that kind of stuff. I think the best part about the movie was just the responses from people after seeing it. It wasn't just, "Hey that was cool, that was fun," or you know, 'Good story." People were saying things like: "You don't understand. That was exactly like watching my own marriage up on the big screen. That's what's going on in my house." Or, you know: "We went out and got 'The Love Dare,' and my husband and I have canceled our divorce hearing. We've been married for 30 years, and our marriage is finally getting back on track because of this movie." So marriages have been rescued from divorce because of the movie and the book 'The Love Dare.' So that's the best part.
3. Were you surprised at all that the movie became a huge hit and the book was one of Amazon's top sellers?
We had high hopes for it, but we never dreamed that it would get this kind of a huge response -- I mean, both of them. I can say this to compliment the writers because I didn't write the movie or the book, but the movie ended up being the most profitable independent movie of the year, surpassing all other independent films ... and then the book sold over 1.5 million copies. So it did extremely well.
4. Did you enjoy all the fame you received at such a young age for 'Growing Pains,' or was it a lot to handle?
Yeah, it was a lot to handle. But, you know, for me I couldn't compare it to anything else. It was the only life I knew. I started 'Growing Pains' when I was 14, and it all just kind of happened so quickly. It was fun. A lot of it was great; some of it was not so great. In the end, I ended up meeting my wife, we got married -- things turned out great. I'm thankful for the whole experience. No regrets for being on 'Growing Pains.'
5. You did a 'Growing Pains' reunion movie in 2000 and another one in 2004. Think you'll ever do another one? And do you still keep in touch with the rest of the Seavers?
I don't think so. I don't think they're going to do another one. I don't know how many 'Growing Pains' movies you can do. But who knows? Maybe they will. ...Yeah, we do keep in touch. In fact, I talked to Jeremy Miller the other day. He plays Ben. And actually I was in touch with Joanna [Kerns] too. We're all friends. We like getting together every once in a while. Everything's good with the Seaver family.

Reader Comments (56)
marcy at 11:56AM on Jan 29th 2009
Age approaching 40 should just love every minute of life. Marcy B. Silver Spring, Md
Ree at 3:04PM on Jan 29th 2009
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GSFU at 3:53PM on Jan 29th 2009
If a movie is all it takes for you to stay married to the miserable screw you hitched, then you've got to be pretty freaking stupid.
william reis at 10:26PM on Jan 29th 2009
kirk camerom has a wife , six children,accepted Jesus as his saviour, puts God first!!! help terminally ill children wow! he knows what he wants to do and does not allow people to make his decisions but he allows God to direct his footsteps and is so blessed, that is so impressive God will take care of his own.....good job!!! six children wow, that is great..be fruitful and multiply!! sheila
Matthew W at 4:22PM on Jan 29th 2009
I'm glad to see Kirk nolonger burying his gift in the forest... nolonger hiding his candle under the bed.
Karen at 4:41PM on Jan 29th 2009
Boy, GSFU -- why are you so angry? I think YOU need to go see this awesome movie!
Ella at 4:39PM on Jan 29th 2009
"what God has joined together, let no man separate" The problem with a lot of us is that we marry the wrong person, perhaps the person God didn't want for us to begin with and we end up miserable. This movie came out at the right time, "for such a time as this" So if this movie helps marriages to stay together, amen to that!
Abraxus at 5:02PM on Jan 29th 2009
I haven't seen the movie, but now I would like to, just to see what it's about because it would be nice to see a movie where someone works on their marriage instead of the divorces you see on TV all the time and then off they go and shack up with someone else really quickly. My friends in real life who get divorced usually take at least some time to get over it. I like the idea that a former child star is actually enjoying his life too - his sister Candace is doing well also - maybe their parents grounded them well, who knows! Good luck to Kirk - I couldn't handle 6 kids myself, but hey, to each their own!
d at 5:20PM on Jan 29th 2009
I applaud this man for being honest about his devout Christianity. My husband and I were brought directly together by God through a prayer from a sad young girl who wanted someone to love only her. We have now been married nearly 37 years, have two beautiful children, two great in-law children and two adorable grandsons. God has allowed us to go through some pretty tough trials, but we always came through and we thank God everyday for each other. If only couples today would listen to each other, laugh and enjoy each other's company more than the "boys or the girls," spend time with each other and give of themselves 100% to make the other person happy. Most of all, not give up during the hard or bad times but to work through them together.
Bella at 5:22PM on Jan 29th 2009
I just watched this movie two nights ago. I was really looking forward to watching it, because of what it was about. While I have to say that the subject of the movie was good, the acting was horrible. I just couldn't take most of the characters seriously, since I was laughing at how dry and unbelievable the acting was. I also didn't see how 2 people that treated each other so horribly, could even find a way back from that sort of emotional murder. I've been married for 18 years and have 3 kids and I was hoping to find some sort of inspiration from this movie for a way to actually try and see if there is a way to make my marriage better. Why? We're not fighting or yelling at each other. It's the opposite for us. We care about our kids and love them, but as for each other? We tolerate each other. I am so far emotionally disconnected from my husband, that I haven't felt like a wife in over 8 years. I'm a roommate, baby sitter and servant. You ask why GSFU is so angry? It's easy to be angry when things don't work out the way you expected. The hard part is trying to figure out if it can ever be fixed...or if you even want to fix things anymore.
Before you go quoting scripture to me, know that I am a Christian and have had some amazing things happen to me because of my faith. I have had a rough past year because of the death of my best friend and even though, at the time, I knew she was not suffering anymore, I found myself unable to find the answers I needed anywhere. I don't need someone to try to make it better for me. I need to accept that this was His will and that at some point (not yet) I'll understand it and go, "Oh...now I understand". But I still don't know what will make my marriage better. Still looking for that answer.
Matthew at 5:24PM on Jan 29th 2009
If right wingers and christnas wanted to save marriages they would see that allowinf loving couples to marry helps marriage. DIVORCE ruins marriage! But kirk like most christians is picking and choosing from that MAN WRITTEN book that they love to use to smack others around with they dont like. Keep your hate in church where it belongs!
Jackie at 5:39PM on Jan 29th 2009
I am not a Christian however I have wanted to see this movie for a very long time. My husband is a Christian and we have had our share of ups and downs. And it isn't stupid for a movie to save a marriage. Ours was saved when I watched Sex and the City after finding out he had an affiar. I immediately filed for seperation and was working on a divorce when I saw the movie. The line where Miranda's husband Steve said something along the lines of "Yeah I cheated. I broke a vow. But what about all those other vows about for better and for worse". At that moment I knew that I while my husband and I may pray to different Gods, we both had made mistakes and we both had made promises that we owed to ourselves and to each other to keep. Our marriage is now back on track and our almost 5 year old daughter will have a baby brother in June.
I have NetFlixed this movie and my husband and I will watch it on our anniversary next week. 6 years. He used to be a firefighter as well so hopefully he'll get some ideas on how to keep us strong...lol
sharon at 5:49PM on Jan 29th 2009
Bella, you are not committed to helping your marriage. If you were, this movie would hit a nerve istead you you putting it down as much as you did. May it did het a nerve and you just won't admit it. The acting in the movie was fine. You didn't care for the content because you don't want to fix your marriage. You stated you are so far emotionally disconnected from your husband. Therein lies your problem. You may not be seeking a divorce physically, but you are emotionally. You say you're a Christian, but you are looking for wordly cures to something only the Lord can remedy. Look to Him for the healing in your marriage IF you HONESTLY want a healed marriage. If you really don't want a healing, nothing will ever work.
pa at 5:52PM on Jan 29th 2009
Wow! Haven't seen the movie, but after the poor review for the acting, I'm not sure I really want to. Got married 4.5 years ago, age 46, she was 39. First time for both of us. It's the hardest time I've ever had in my life. Crazy! Just a challenge in so many ways. I'm hanging in there, getting counseling, which I wish I had started in the first six months, but I'm too proud for that. I've had a number of siblings go through divorces, and now I say, "I Understand!"
Man, if this movie makes a difference for some, Great! If it's counseling, Great! If it doesn't work out, I'm not judging anyone ever again. I just know that I used to have a face that showed I smiled a lot, but now there seems to be furrows that tell of many struggles. I just checked out the book, "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff... and its all small stuff" That is the latest suggestion in counseling. I will just say, "Ladies, stop trying to be both man and woman. Men, be men. Love your wives!" Just love your wives, guys. That is what I'm trying to do, and when they invite their girlfriend's husband over for dinner and tell you that they can't meet you halfway between where you work and your home, because they've invited their best friend's husband for dinner, because she asked them to, just let it happen, right! Even if they've done it once before and you expressed your concern for that. O' Crap, it's hard to not get over this. I'm a Christian and it's still hard to get over it or not want to return the favor. That's why I say, "Love your wives." It's all that will do!
sreve eisenmanny at 6:06PM on Jan 29th 2009
dear lady with the marriage of 20yrs,
when we first get married we want to smother each other with love and affection,
but after a few years a pillow will do the job, if you catch him passed out drunk that is,
im a man honey and i know just how it is- im a slave , tail -wiper,and full time emotional punching bag i love her and my children but she is a horrible beast ,
best wishes-emasculated in idahoe
kay at 6:09PM on Jan 29th 2009
Bella, I'm sorry for your struggle. I too am a Christian and am experiencing hardships in my marriage. The movie was great for my husband and I because it reminded us that love is supposed to be self-less. As Christians, we remember what Christ did for us. We know His suffering and that what He gave up for us. Our sufferings pale in comparison. The enemy knows that God loves marriage and so thats what he wants to destroy. If you're a Christian, you'll probably have even more obstacles to face. Stand firm in your faith, love God and your spouse selflessly and watch God work. He won't change your spouse, He'll change you. (Exactly what happened in the movie) He told us in His word that it would be difficult here on earth but if we do what we're called to do, evangelize, He will tell us "Well done my good and faithful servant". Your reward is in heaven.
Doug at 6:39PM on Jan 29th 2009
Bella, bella, bella....hmmmmm....I saw the movie yesterday. I thought it was very good for the message it was conveying. Look at the cost of this movie, $500,000...and look at the success it's brought monetarily, 33 million. Give credit where credit is due. This movie wasn't/didn't expect to even be a almost household name, as it has now become. Look at the millions hollywood puts into their movies, millions and millions to bring to the forefront nudity, profanity, non-christian beliefs, etc. You need to go back and watch this movie again. Yes, I know that this movie is about working through the difficult times with marriage problems, but for me...I saw more than that...a lot more! I saw the relationship between a human being and that with Jesus Christ. And if this movie brought just (1) person to Chirst...wasn't that in itself more accomplishment than you could ever expect to say about a major hollywood blockbuster. This movie was moving, in a positive way.
Anne Sullivan at 6:27PM on Jan 29th 2009
This movie made me stop and think on whether I was trying hard enough in my marriage. Very much like Bella, I thought our feelings would never come back after 35 years. I was even thinking that divorce would be better than living in a marriage without emotion.
God does perform miracles, it hasn't been easy, but my love for my husband no longer depends on "feelings' but in the fact that I made a covenant with him in front of God. We have learned to appreciate each other in a much more realistic way. Sometimes we are like brother and sister than out of the blue the passion takes us away. Not bad for being 60.
Learn to forgive and realize that he is only half of the problem. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and don't try to figure it out yourself, but in all things acknowlege Him and He will direct your path.
Jennifer at 6:39PM on Jan 29th 2009
I am a Christian and my church is not full of hate, my recommendation is that maybe if you were to visit a church in your area you would see the love that they have for people. If a movie or book is out to promote something good how do you get hate out of that. Maybe the hate is you! Take a look into the mirror and ask yourself...why am I so mad because someone wants to do something good for someone else....then PRAY to god about it.
Brianbscotty at 6:42PM on Jan 29th 2009
I think that Kirk was excellent in this movie. And for those who didn't know, everyone else in the movie were members of the church. Kirk was the only real actor. Also, where he kisses his wife in the end in the firehouse, that's his real wife. He wouldn't kiss the actress. This movie is what we are missing in our society. No judgemental finger pointing. Just the truth about the only way that any relationship can truly work. Get it right with God and all the other relationships will fall in line. "Love them like Jesus..."