I stand before you today a reformed hater of Ben Affleck. Trust me, five years ago I was an outspoken opponent of the man, lighting quick with the snarky 'Gigli' jab; and a regular, casual dropper of the phrase "that a**hole Ben Affleck."
But why did I despise Ben Affleck? Because of a few offensively bad bombs like 'Pearl Harbor,' 'Gigli' and 'Daredevil'? Because he had the nerve to date and then propose to Jennifer Lopez? Because everyone else suddenly did? I'm not really sure.
In the late '90s, Affleck was the intelligent and witty wunderkind behind the triumph 'Good Will Hunting,' who had an eye for classic material ('Dazed and Confused,' 'Chasing Amy,' 'Boiler Room') and who stayed loyal to his blue-collar roots in his hometown of Boston. But after the turn of the century, Affleck was the smarmy elitist snob from the overrated 'Good Will Hunting,' who made s***ty movies ('Paycheck,' 'Jersey Girl,' 'Surviving Christmas') and who wouldn't stop shoving his love for the Red Sawx down our throats.
You could point to a very specific time period when the world turned against Affleck: 2002. It was the year Affleck appeared in a couple moderately successful thrillers, 'Changing Lanes' and 'The Sum of All Fears,' but importantly, it was the year he fell for "Jenny From the Block."
Their union just so happened to correspond with the boom of celebrity tabloids: Where there was once just PEOPLE Magazine, now there were at least 10 successful imitators, and they couldn't get enough of "Bennifer," the not-so-honored recipients of the First Celebrity Couple portmanteau. The public reacted by to the couple's overexposure by at first obsessing over them, then quickly letting that obsession morph into seething hatred. So they (we) hated them, but at the same time, couldn't get enough of them.It didn't help that what followed were two awful creative collaborations, 'Gigli' and 'Jersey Girl,' plus Affleck's unsightly turn as a blind, red leather-clad superhero in 'Daredevil.' But was the public really upset with his disappointing artistic output? Nobody hates Hugh Jackman even though 'Wolverine' pretty much sucked, and he's also made the abominable 'Van Helsing,' 'Australia' and 'Swordfish' (in fact, despite his crimes against good taste, I kind of love Jackman, one of the nicest and most genuine people in Hollywood).
There's also the issue of politics, of course, since Affleck is an outspoken liberal. But anyone who hates Affleck for his political views must also hate Sean Penn, Brad Pitt, Denzel Washington, Tom Hanks and, really, the majority of Hollywood. So that point's irrelevant here.
Whatever the case, Affleck, publicly recognizing his sudden unpopularity, did the wisest thing an overexposed celebrity could do -- pay attention, Paris Hilton -- he went away. After his 2004 dud 'Christmas,' Affleck wasn't heard from again (aside from tabloid reports on his marriage to another Jennifer, this one named Garner) until 2006's 'Hollywoodland.'
His supporting turn as fallen TV Superman George Reeves in 'Hollywoodland' was widely acclaimed, a comeback role that earned him a Golden Globe nomination for Best Supporting Actor. Affleck used publicity interviews for the movie to both chastise the outrageousness of the celebrity media and also (somewhat) apologize for the lackluster movies he'd made. He claimed he didn't want to be an A-list star in the limelight anymore. It wasn't worth it.Affleck's come through on that vow. He's taken supporting roles in movies like 'Smokin' Aces,' 'He's Just Not That Into You' and 'State of Play,' and made a startling impression behind the camera with his directorial debut, the excellent 'Gone Baby Gone.'
And no role singlehandedly defines Affleck 2.0 like his latest, that of a longhaired and scruffy stoner-slacker in Mike Judge's new comedy 'Extract' (think the Diedrich Bader sidekick in 'Office Space'). Affleck steals every scene he's in, and reminds us why we took to the Bostonian in the first place. Here he's coarse, foulmouthed, and freaking funny.Despite the actor's reinvention, haters still abound. As "noobular" suggested on an IMDB message board recently, "I hate this guy ... Someone should punch him in that gigantic chin of his." Several other threads on his page included the word "douche" in the subject line.
But forget the haters. Affleck is a good dude, a good actor, and a damn good director, it turns out. Who's ready to jump back on the bandwagon with me?
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Reader Comments (24)
Dalovely at 9:40PM on Sep 3rd 2009
Robert Pattinson a.k.a Edward Cullen read this article thoroughly. This will be you in 10 years.
Kristina at 10:48PM on Sep 3rd 2009
Very happy to read this- because I have always loved him. Hope people follow in your footsteps!
kristi at 10:46PM on Sep 4th 2009
I also have always liked Ben Affleck.....I guess I'm not a very good judge of what makes a good movie or not because I very much enjoyed Pearl Harbor and Daredevil.......He is a very good actor that some day will be ranked with the very best of them.........and Affleck and Garner are a wonderful couple a refreshing change from the usual hollywood freak marriages
Pam at 7:19PM on Sep 7th 2009
I fell in love with Holden McNeil (sp) in "Chasing Amy". That was the first time I remember seeing Ben and couldn't get enough. Partily due to Kevin (I love him) Smith's wonderful writing, but his delivery was wonderful too. I've always liked Ben even when it was not popular to like him. So glad he married the right Jennifer too!!!!
Holly at 11:13PM on Sep 3rd 2009
I'm with you (because I've never not liked Ben Affleck, didn't see Gigli, actually liked Daredevil) but don't be hatin' on Jersey Girl.
nmeade645 at 10:24AM on Sep 4th 2009
always loved ben affleck but hated bennifer he should have followed his buddy matt damon's career choices and life choices butit was more his vegas gambling stripper bar above the law persona that got him in trouble rather than his bad roles gigli with jen 1 being the exception that combo would have killed anyones career anyone heard of marc anthony lately
lindaboston at 6:03PM on Sep 15th 2009
I think that Ben Affleck is a talented actor/writer and now director, coming on the scene at a young age along w/Matt Damon (Good Will Hunting) As to what was said regarding that he had gone away, maybe he was busy getting married and starting a new family. I also think that he is very intelligent/well informed about politics/ social issues and should not be critisized for speaking out. ((( HOPEFULLY NOT RECEIVED AS BIAS )))
Laura at 2:27PM on Sep 4th 2009
We've all made bad choices, his just on screen. I've always joked how..."I like Ben Affleck..everyones so mean to him." He was amazing in State of Play and a great director, I enjoyed this article and strongly agree thanks for putting it out there.
Laura Cortez at 5:05PM on Sep 4th 2009
I liked Ben Affleck but now I love him. I think he is a great director and actor. Im glad he dumped Jennifer Lopez and married Jennifer Garner. I cannot wait to see his future work!
Felicia at 5:19PM on Sep 4th 2009
I never hated me although he did turn me off during the 'Bennifer' days the way he let himself be re-made. I think it was a wise choice to fall off the grid for a while and he's made some smart choices since then.
Charlotte at 1:15PM on Sep 5th 2009
Ditto. I've always enjoyed him as an actor. And the fact that he is also a bright intelligent young man is a plus. I wish him well in all his endeavors.
sean at 9:01PM on Sep 5th 2009
to the author: you jump on whatever bandwagon that you choose... but if you have to blank out half of your words with asterisks, CHOOSE OTHER WORDS!
Your writing style reflects a clear lack of ability.
helas at 6:41PM on Sep 5th 2009
I don't really like or dislike any actors for their personal lives, I just like or dislike them for their work. It seems stupid and juvenile to care what they do offscreen...I liked Affleck in 'Dogma' quite a bit, but that was because I liked the whole movie and the whole cast. I can't really recall any other performances from him - but this writer makes a good case for liking Affleck. Nicely written.
Matt Damon, Jr. at 8:38PM on Sep 5th 2009
I have always and forever loved Ben Affleck, ever since we used to hang out and mess around together. Even now, he's my very special studmuffin!
Jessica at 1:37PM on Sep 6th 2009
I LOVE this article because I have recently had the same turn around.. "Good will hunting" is an amazing movie and i loved ben affleck but for a while i just forgot and i even started wishin he wasnt in that movie.. Then after "Hes just not that into you" it was a complete change and I am totally back on the ben affleck bandwagon and i wonder why i ever doubted him =)
Gaby at 3:55PM on Sep 6th 2009
this article makes me want to laugh.
first of all ben afflick has always and will always be a terrible actor, just because he's been in a couple good movies like dazed and confused, doesn't change that fact.
and to who ever wrote this article....do us all a favor and get better movie taste. gone baby gone was ridiculous.
how did you get this job?! you're not clever or funny.
fatty mcFanboy at 11:29PM on Sep 7th 2009
Yes a 94% fresh rating from rotten tomatoes means that Gone Baby Gone was not an awesome movie.
Ronnie at 2:26AM on Sep 8th 2009
What you wrote to the writer is extremely exaggerated and false at that. So now I am obliged to say that you clearly do not know anything about movies because Gone Baby Gone was an excellent movie and an incredible directorial debut.
Donna at 8:45PM on Sep 6th 2009
Ben Affleck has made a few bummers, but what actor hasn't. (I liked Pearl Harbor, by the way.)He's gotten over his Bennifer days, thank god. Let his light shine now!!!!!!
Charlotte at 2:09PM on Sep 7th 2009
I have always been a fan of Ben Affleck.