Mo'Nique's come a long way since 'Phat Girlz.'The amiable actor-comedian-talk show host (and yes, headliner of that infamous 2006 bomb) is the talk of Tinsletown these days thanks to her harrowing dramatic turn in the Oscar favorite 'Precious: Based on the Novel Push by Sapphire.' The indie has steadily gained steam since winning big at Sundance in January, subsequently winning the endorsement of media heavies Oprah Winfrey and Tyler Perry, who signed on as producers.
'Precious' features the year's most unlikely heroine -- Clareece "Precious" Jones (Gabourey Sidibe), an obese Harlem teen twice impregnated by her father. For her portrayal of Mary, the girl's callous, abusive mother, Mo'Nique is a virtual lock for an Academy Award nomination.
Of course, Mo'Nique's ascension to awards darling hasn't been without its off-screen drama. Various reports have circulated accusing the actress of taking a diva-like attitude and demanding money to appear at festivals to promote the film -- and saying it could severely hurt her Oscar chances.
Mo'Nique fights back against "they" -- the anonymous sources of those reports -- in our candid chat.
Did you have any idea that 'Precious' would turn out to be such a big deal when you signed on to do it?
We didn't do it for it to turn out to be a big deal, we did it for it to change peoples' lives. And I think whenever you do something that you totally surrender to, the universe gets involved. And we totally surrendered to this project with [director Lee Daniels].
Are you surprised at the attention it's received?
I won't say surprised. I'll say appreciative, very appreciative.
Where did you look for inspiration for your character, Mary?
Well, I know that character. That character was my oldest brother Gerald, to me. So I was very aware of who that character was and when Mr. Daniels told me he needed me to play a monster, I reflected that.
You had to go to some pretty dark places in the film, does that wear on you emotionally?You know, I won't say dark, I would say I had to go to some very honest places. And, no, it didn't wear on me because I dealt with it. So when Mr. Daniels said, "Action," I totally knew it was a character and not something that I had to be deprogrammed for.
Did you do anything to lighten the mood on set in between takes?
Oh my goodness, if y'all could've been there when Mr. Daniels said, "Cut," we were kids on a playground running through that place, listening to house music, eating crab legs. We just totally had a ball. People wouldn't know what movie we were filming if they saw us in between takes.
And that came naturally?
It was very natural because I'm a comedian and Gaby is very joyful and playful and Lee Daniels, oh my God, he's the biggest kid I've ever met. So it was very natural.
What was your relationship like with Gabby behind the scenes?
Amazing, I learned so much from that young lady.
She wasn't afraid of you once the cameras stopped rolling?
Heck no [laughs]!
What do you think the backing of Oprah and Tyler Perry does for the film?
Well, we all know that when Oprah Winfrey says, "I like it" ... What does that mean? That means you can purchase a small island anywhere in the world, if you like [laughs]. Oprah Winfrey understands that story -- she's spoken openly about being molested as a child. Tyler Perry has spoken of it. So they know those stories, they know those people. And when we start removing the labels, when they start looking at themselves as human beings, they can relate. So then they said, "How can we make sure the world hears this? Let's put our names to it."
You share a pivotal scene with Mariah Carey. What was your impression of her?
Amazing. When we got to that scene, and the scene is very real, all those emotions are very real, she was amazing. It said it all on her face. It said it, you read it, you felt it, you understood it. She was just, hands down, brilliant.
Are you surprised that people are so surprised you have the dramatic chops that you display in this movie?
Well, I think that people are surprised because they oftentimes want to put us in a box. And it's like, "OK, well, you can only do this." And it's so unfortunate becuase there are so many talented people out there that get put in boxes and they don't choose to fight their way out of it. It's like, "Guys, I'm an entertainer. I love being funny, that's what keeps me alive. But I also love entertaining, period."
What would earning an Oscar nomination mean to you?
Any nomination would be appreciative, but we've already won it. We've already won. Because when you get an Asian brother that comes up to you and says, "Mo'Nique, what I'm going to say to you is going to sound really weird, but I have to say it. I am Mary Jones, and I was Mary Jones to my brother and my sister." And now he's sobbing and we're embracing and I said, "Congratulations for your honesty, now go get you some help." We've already won.
Are you game for the whole campaigning process that the Oscar race sometimes demands?
Well, honestly, I think that the Academy has been given a bad rap. I really do. Because when people say, "It's political," well, I'm not a politician. I really think that the Academy has been given a bad rap. They're humans beings too, and they want to judge the performance. I can't imagine them judging anything else. What else would you be judging? Do you know?
It's unfortunate, but there are obviously politics involved in the Oscars. Otherwise there wouldn't be all the campaigning and marketing.
I'll say this, I'm very comfortable with what I did on that screen. And I really believe that the Academy are human beings that say, "We're going to judge the performance, because that's what we give this academy for, the performance." That's what I believe.
There's been a lot written in the media about you missing a couple movie premieres and not doing enough to promote the film. Do you think that coverage has been fair?
Well, who's saying that? Because no one can tell me who, Kevin, do you know who they are [laughs]? Because I want to meet them! Who are "they"? Baby, people gonna talk. It comes with the territory. But didn't they talk about Jesus? Then they killed him. So, what makes me think I'm so special that they're not gonna talk about me?
What would you say to the people spreading those reports?I would ask them, did they see this show? And, I don't know, maybe they haven't, because this may not be the show you go on when you want to promote something, but it's called 'The Oprah Winfrey Show.' I don't know, Kevin, I'm not sure. And then I would say, there's another show that's an institution, it's been around for so long and it's called 'The Today Show.' I did that show, too. Then I did this amazing show with my Italian sister Rachael Ray. Then I did The New York Times, which is supposed to be the biggest print organization in the world. So, what I would say to whoever "they" are is, stop reporting the wrong thing, it's unfair to the readers.
Speaking of TV shows, how is your own talk show going so far?
I am having the time of my live. When I tell you, I'm a kid in a candy store and I can get any type of candy I want, that's how I feel every night I come out of those elevator doors.
No major challenges or difficulties hosting a nightly show?
No, because I'm talking to my friends. Y'all are my friends, y'all are my family. Why would I feel challenged in front of my family?
Have you seen the new 'Jay Leno' show? Are you a fan of the format?
Yes, I have seen the new format. I'm a fan of Jay. Everyone is saying to me, "Well, the competition is going to be thick." And I say, "No it's not." Because I'm not competing. I'm not competing with anybody. I'm there to have a great time, baby. I have my blinders on so that way I can keep moving forward. I'm happy for Wanda, for Jay, for Dave, for George, for Chelsea, for Wendy, everybody, Oprah, Tyra, I'm happy for all of them, because what's meant for Mo'Nique, guess who gonna get it?
Mo'Nique?
Exactly.
So what's next for you?
I hope tomorrow, Kevin [laughs]. Because I am a true believer that tomorrow is not promised. I don't take that for granted, so I'm very thankful for today and I hope I just get to tomorrow.
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Reader Comments (68)
Claudette Norris at 10:35AM on Nov 14th 2009
Mo'Nique -
I thoroughly enjoyed your article. You were focused, honest and humble in your dialogue with Kevin. And apparently NOT MOVED by what you see or hear.!!
God Bless!!
Ty2Phine at 10:14PM on Nov 13th 2009
Amazing that Mo'Nique comes on board at the last moment, after Paula, Lee, even MARIAH who is the biggest female music artist in history--who put her own CD on hold, to promote this Movie. Mo'Nique is the classic baltimore woman, putting all the marketing on hold, so she can make a dollar, or bleed lee and company of hair, nails, and make-up money.
Now that she see's that an Oscar could take her career to the next level, all of a sudden she's making appearances, but when it was time to raise money for the film, she was NO WHERE TO BE FOUND, even Mariah Carey did a concert for private folks to raise money.
Mo'Nique should be ashamed of herself. Being a celeb with money, and fame, and love is a blessing.
imjustnoisy at 11:04PM on Nov 14th 2009
I agree with you.....Monique only started to do these things after Terrance Howard and the young lady was on her show and explained how getting an oscar works.All she was concerned about was how much more money she could demand.I saw the film and personally think the young lady derserves the oscar.
eshazswagga at 1:38PM on Nov 18th 2009
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Stella at 11:09PM on Nov 26th 2009
Actually, Madonna has sold close to 40 million more albums than Mariah. For recoreded music as well as concerts, Mariah does not come anywhere near Madonna.
barbara at 11:54PM on Nov 19th 2009
TY2PINE, WHAT EVER THAT NAME MEAN. BUT ANY WAY MO' DON'T OWE ANTHING TO ANYONE. BLACKS GET USE IN EVERYTHING WHEN THEY FIRST GET STARTED, SO SHE JUST GETTING HER DUES BACK. WOW! ALL STARS BLACK AND WHITE WHEN GETTING UP FOR AWARD DO TH SAME THING. BESIDE MARIAH BEEN OUT THERE WAY LONGER THAN MO', SHE CAN AFFORD TO GIVE YOU IDIOT. DO YOUR RESEARCH BEFORE YOU COMMENT. KEEP THE NEGATIVE TO YOUR UNWORTH SELF.
Lisa King at 2:37PM on Nov 13th 2009
I am very happy for Mo'Nique and the cast. I am sadden that no movie theater near me is playing the movie. I am praying that the movie is blessed and that everyone will be able to view the movie.
judy, Az at 3:11PM on Nov 13th 2009
Thanks for the interview Monique, I am also saddened that the movie is not in my area and I won't get to see it in Arizona until the 20th of Nov..
Marley at 3:59PM on Nov 13th 2009
Monique is truly an amazing woman, and a talented actress. I happen to be in one of the lucky states Precious is showing early in, Atlanta,Georgia, and saw the movie. It was INCREDIBLE!!! I was crying, laughing, and amazed at the truth, and honesty displayed on the screen. It's gripping, sad, and funny all at once. I hope Monique wins an Oscar, she deserves one. For all the haters, so what she didn't go to a few red carpet events, its apparent from what I've seen that she is proud of this movie, and her performance, and that speaks louder than any Marc Jacob's dress she could have worn to any premier.
CynthiaGarrett at 8:24PM on Nov 13th 2009
I love you Monique God Bless keep on keeping on And Baby' You definitely have what it takes and I applaude , and Congradulate you on all your accomplishments
You deserve a OSCAR, and an Emmy.
v at 8:37PM on Nov 13th 2009
I THINK MONIQUE IS VERY DOWN TO EARTH HUMAN BEING. EVEY TIME I SEE ANY MOVIE SHE'S ON I LAUGH OUT LOUD. SHE'S LIKE A VERY HAPPY FAMLIY MEMBER.I REALLY THINK SHE YAKES IN ALL, THE LOVE THAT COMES HER WAY, WHEN I SEE HER I SAY TO MY SELF THERE IS ME SISTER MONIQUE,
Ethlyn Johnson at 4:02AM on Nov 14th 2009
Go a head sister, you always have me crying each time I saw your show. There is too much stress people just need to have positive outlook for each other. I did enjoy the show, sometimes I am laughing and the next time I am crying.God bless you.
Sharma at 6:59AM on Nov 19th 2009
Isn't it amazing how we do one another, especially the media, now that Mo'nique is becoming a household name, although in the African American community, she was known to us anyway; all of these rumors are starting to come out; I agree with Mo'nique, who are "they", but I guess it true what "they" say, as long as they're talking about her she'll stay in the limelight, whether it's good or bad.
Mo'nique, keep doing you. You still have true fans out here.
rik at 1:56AM on Nov 20th 2009
"Mo'nique is becoming a household name"
Are you freakin serious. househould name
girl please!
Lets not get crazy.
King Tobias at 10:42AM on Nov 14th 2009
I going to see the movie today and I'm very excited about the movie and the buzz of Oscar for monique,I've always been a fan and I'm sure she showed that her talent has know limits god bless her and god bless the message in this movie.
Melinda D. Watts at 12:29PM on Nov 14th 2009
I am very proud of Monique and that she always stay ture to what she knows. She didn't try to conform to what others think she should be. She always has a positive messages of the love you should have for your self and the love you should give to others. I watch her show every night and she always makes me laugh and she always has a positive messages. And just because someone doesn't do things how you would do them that don't make the wrong, that just make them different. So if you can get with it keep on moving.
LINDA at 1:19PM on Nov 14th 2009
FIRST I SAY , I LOVE MO'NIQUE. SHE SEEMS TO BE A HONEST PERSON. SHE IS FUNNY ,REAL AND CARES ABOUT EVERYONE.I WISH HER SHOW THE VERY BEST .I STAY UP EVERYNIGHT TRYING TO SEE HER SHOW KNOWING I HAVE TO BE AT WORK AT 7 AM.LIKE SHE SAID THEY TALKED ABOUT JESUS CHRIST SO WHAT MAKE HER ANY DIFFERENT.
SHE LOOKS GREAT.
Darius at 6:55PM on Nov 14th 2009
Good for Monique to keep it real. Dont let the haters get you down.
I saw the movie and it was deep. You can tell the amount of care that went into the details. Its worth your time and tell a friend.
Peace
Karen at 8:23AM on Nov 15th 2009
I enjoyed reading what she had to say .And at the end of it all it is GOD that control of it all. So my hat is off to Monique and my heart is open for prayer she get what is due to her. And that people stop and look in the mirror and a know that the only person you are suppose to talk about is yourself stop talking about other and my this world would be a little more rounder and not so JACK UP. Mike Jackson the man the MIRROR. Listen to it.It could be you. Help somebody as you pass along and your living will not be in vain.
zenobia at 9:34AM on Nov 15th 2009
GOD IS GOOD.